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  • Feb. 21st, 2006 at 1:23 AM
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Edit 6/17/09: I've written up 'all-point meditation' for 2600 and am giving a workshop in similar style but greater breadth at Toorcamp.

Edit 10/29/07: I'm using the information below to create a book, tentatively titled "A Hacker's Guide to Meditation: Practical Recipes Without Dogma". It will have these techniques plus a few more, a completely new section on partner techniques, expanded everything, elaborated specific recipes (e.g. the things I list here as "variants"), and include all currently used professional psychotherapy techniques that apply (e.g. 'acclimatization therapy' used to treat phobias). It will NOT include any techniques that I think are pure bullshit (like "the law of attraction"), history, nor any theory that is not research-supported (e.g. "traditional chinese medicine", for which I have seen no satisfactory support).

If you're interested, please let me know; if you come across any techniques that I have not covered below or (valid) research into this that would be informative, tell me so that I can make sure they are included. Thanks!


[Edit:] Added trigger tamper-proofing and removal; postscript.
Xposted to [info]empaths.

I guess it's time I wrote up the techniques I use to do stuff in my head. I'll try to make these comprehensible to other people; please let me know if some of it is obscure, so I can fix that. It's not intentionally so. If I've left anything out, please let me know.

The terms I use for these techniques are solely my own.

These are listed in order of progression; one skill builds, roughly, upon another. They're not all necessary, and some are perhaps better not learned at all. This is the order in which I learned them; I make no claim that will be ideal for you.

They are all simple.

None are easy.

What you can do with them will depend heavily on what you want. What I describe here subsumes more or less everything I know of meditation and related practices, except in that I'm not writing out the consequences (you'll have to figure those out yourself) nor the numerous variants. I will try to sketch the effects and usefulness of each - but seriously, this is something best explored for yourself. These are all things that I have practiced for many, many hours; I expect that the same would be needed for others, but perhaps not.

Your mileage will vary.

It is not necessary to have practiced them for a very long time before you are able to see effects; nor is it necessary to have mastery of any one skill before practicing another, or an application. Just be aware that the subtlety of your control will vary with skill, and some of the applications are perhaps not ones you would want to invoke without understanding the consequences. That said, the only way you can learn the consequences is by invoking them. They won't kill you, nor cause any permanent damage; just be careful when you're playing with something new, is all.

Some of these techniques, I suspect, will only make sense in hindsight, once you already know them. The variants I mention are for the benefit of those of you who come across those in other places, or have already, just to point out that they are aspects of the same thing.

I have left out those techniques that are fundamentally multi-person in nature - that is, ones that require a partner, or a target, or etc. Mainly, this is because I don't yet know them well enough. However, my philosophy is that you should first be able to control yourself, before trying to create change in others. I am sure that ways to extend these to partner situations will be readily apparent if you think about it.

However, I wouldn't recommend limiting yourself to the techniques I mention here. Solitude is not a path for most.

For the empaths in the audience: I recommend these as highly effective and proven ways to deal with the world in a sane way - rather than being overwhelmed, shutting down, or constantly moved around without volition.

I am no guru, nor desire to become one. And I am hardly far along in my practice. I am sure that I will come up with stronger or more subtle stuff as I go - and for that matter, that you will also (perhaps stuff that I don't know or can't do yet - let me know). But, these have worked well for me, and I know that many people do not know them - or will pay money to people who do want guru status for teaching this. So, here it is for free. It's really not that hard.

Just start.

And yes, they really are that simple.



Foundation techniques:

1. One-point meditation (Variants: mantra recitation; spot-focus; sport / work 'zone'ing)

Get comfy. Focus on one thing. Elaborate it. Repeat.

Example 1: "Spot on the wall." Look at (not 'stare at', which connotes glazing-over) a spot on the wall or ceiling just above your level vision. See as much detail as you can. Keep looking, picking up more and more detail; there is always more to see.

Example 2: Breath meditation. Notice your breathing. Deepen it, slow it, notice the intricacies of where your breathing, what muscles move, what parts of your long fill and what don't. Try to breathe by filling the bottom first, then up more. There are very numerous variations of this; I would suggest as a basic to start with 5 seconds in, 1 hold, 5 out, 1 hold, and lengthen that to something like 20/3/20/3 as you get better. More out-breath will be more relaxing; more in will be more invigorating.


2. No-point meditation (Variants: "zen"; mushin; Scientologist style trance-induction)

Get comfy. Focus on the background of your mind. Gently turn away all conscious thoughts, including the thought of doing so. Continue until the mind is quiet.


3. All-point meditation (Variant: martial arts "soft eyes")

Go somewhere with a lot of stimulation available - up this with skill level. Eg: a river; a downtown area with plenty of people; etc.

Get comfy somewhere where you can observe everything. Try to see everything - not any one thing at a time. Do not focus on anything, and do not get 'attached' to anything; let it all pass by, but be observed. Over time, up the stimulation - add more senses (sight, touch, smell, sound, etc), broaden peripheral vision, etc.

This method of meditation will probably be easier as a beginning method for people with ADD or other difficulty doing empty-mind or single focus techniques, and makes for a good way to 'break in' to the rest. The others will get easier once you can do any particular one.


4. Energy circuit (Variants: "energy balls"; conceptual vs generative / fire vs water cycles; many more complex forms)

For me, this came naturally; I have some difficulty explaining it to those who've not had the experience.

Get comfy. Pay attention to the pulse of the energy in your body; this is not the same as your heartbeat. It's somewhat asymmetric, though regular; rather like waves. Just concentrate on noticing it.

Descriptions of the sensation vary - electrical; heat; cold; magnetic repulsion/attraction; colors; etc. You'll have to figure out what it is for you.

Once you can notice it at will, try moving it along - slowing or quickening the cycle, changing the pulse, etc. The easiest is the line up the spine, over the head, and down the front center (roughly speaking).

The other common version is to create a sort of 'ball' of sensation in your hand. Hold your hand relaxed, palm cupped and up (or palms facing each other), and do the same - notice the current, then start to play with it.

This (as with everything) should be a very playful thing - experiment, see what you can do. See what if feels like, what other things come up.

If you are doing this strongly, traditional recommendation is that you touch the tip of your tongue to your palate and put some awareness in the anus, as these are two 'gaps' in the flow. Analogy is somewhat like an electrical arc - better to keep it continuous. Again, experiment.



Applications:

1. Flame & Void

Method: Close your eyes. Picture a single, bright flame, independent of any source - like the flame of a match or a candle. Visualize it strongly; see the flickering, the little variations in color and intensity. Feed into it everything else sensory until there's nothing in your perception but the flame, until it's against a background of deep black void. Feed it anything you'd like to dissociate yourself from - emotions, sensations, thoughts, etc. Repeat until you can't feel them any more.

Effect: Very strong dissociative. Useful for e.g. forcing your body to do something despite pain; as a temporary measure to suppress unpleasant thoughts or reactions so you can get work done; as a temporary measure to gain distance from something too strongly emotional to deal with immediately. Etc.

Warning: This is not a technique to be used frequently, or on a long-term basis (the same goes for all dissociative techniques). Longterm use is draining - more so than readily apparent until it's too late. Does NOT remove the 'problem', because they remain unresolved; it's only useful as a temporary measure to avoid dealing with something, or to ignore it. Be careful not to damage your body if you repress pain; it's there for a reason. This technique is highly addictive and dependency-forming.

Seriously: be careful. This one is not a toy.


2. Inner sanctum ("Standard" self-hypnosis)

Method: Get comfy, close your eyes. Picture yourself at the top of something leading down - a staircase, a hill, a space through which you fly or swim. One step at a time, go down. At each step, elaborate the area around you - what does the environment feel like, smell like, look like; what is the surrounding area made of; etc. At the bottom (10th, traditionally) step, you'll be in sanctum.

What this looks like is extremely idiosyncratic. Mine's a sort of lush valley glade with a forest and lake. A friend of mine used a stone and wood room, with a fireplace and chairs and books. Use whatever calms you, makes you feel at home; populate it if you like - this is where the idea of a 'power animal' or familiar comes in. Relax, look around, get to know the place.

Reverse the process to come out - step by step, come out and let it fade below you.

Try to do this a few times before using it in a stressful situation.

Effect: Calming. Lets you change your mind state in any situation to one of peace; also can be a mild to strong dissociative (see above warning). Very useful for 'exploring' your inner world - be aware that everything is going to be symbolic, not literal, at best.

More advanced versions involve intentionally creating or exploring particular areas or things; interacting with / talking to an aspect of Self, there; etc. This is likely to be highly idiosyncratic - again, explore and see what it does for you. It's your world.

It is possible, though difficult, to invite others in.


3. Shielding

Method: Picture / feel yourself surrounded by a bubble. Visualize it, feel it, etc. This varies for everyone - from something very close to skin, to a few feet out; different colors or none at all; pulsing or static; different shapes; different ways of reacting to incoming things (reflection, absorption, walling, selective filtering, dissociative filtering, etc. Practice it, and practice several different kinds to learn their effects.

This can be layered - one type inside another of different type.

Effects: The consistency and symbolism you put into this will again by very idiosyncratic, but can result in dramatically different effects. This includes for example: calm observation; dissociation (walls); limited but effective defenses (absorption); not being affected by negative things, but still open to the positive (skilled filtering); etc.

You'll have to figure out what symbolism works for you (colors, shapes, textures, symbols, sounds, etc), and what effects you want it to create. It'll do what you want it to.

Energy to support this is normally drawn from your internal reserves - this can be changed (e.g. to feed off environment, or to not work in such a way as to require any maintenance feed), but be careful with overworking your shields. Most folk need to drop them and recharge from time to time.

Warning: Be careful what you wish for. :-P


4. Grounding

Method: Very variable, and fairly tied into your religious views. The easiest way to describe it is as connecting yourself very strongly to something far, far larger than yourself - something that doesn't mind at all if you use it for support and pull as much energy as you like from it (since it has so much more).

Common visualizations include a tree sinking roots very deep into the earth; sitting underwater as swirling sand slowly settles around you; being directly connected to / enveloped by God; etc. Again, experiment. Use something that symbolizes stability, calm, and a large / infinite reserve of energy.

Effect: Calming, restorative. Smooth and sure motion; highly useful and common for martial arts. Aiding decision-making; coming to acceptance with whatever you've already subconsciously decided.

In combination with shielding, this is the easiest basic way for empaths to deal with the world.


5. Free flow

Method: This is partially what is practiced in "all-point" meditation. Basically: perceive things (including your own emotions / thoughts), but don't try to hold on to them; let them pass through you without judgment, regret, or etc.

Effect: Hard to describe, but peaceful. Can be somewhat surreal at times. Good for heightening empathy, or for being a "good listener".

This is a different method for empaths, and obviates the need for shields; just let others' emotions flow through you without being so affected by them or by the desire to change them. Allows you to see beauty even in painful things.


6. Walking meditation / eyes-open method

Method: This is more of a meta-technique than something of itself. Basically, take the aforementioned techniques - particularly the basic three meditations, and especially breath-meditation - and do them without first getting yourself comfy and in a special place etc. That is, do them when you're just normally walking around, eating, exercising, riding the bus, driving, talking to people, whatever. Don't always close your eyes. Do it as much as possible - whenever you notice yourself not doing it, just resume.

Effect: This is a way to wean yourself off of the notion that meditation is only something you do in special circumstances - the stereotypical quiet, comfy room in asana with some nice incense - and instead is one you do all the time. Absolutely necessary, in my opinion, for getting beyond simpler practices, and to get a better / deeper understanding of yourself and the effect of meditation.

More pragmatically, this sort of weaning ensures that when in a situation in which you want to change your mind state urgently - e.g. a stressful situation, or one in which you must act now, you have that available to you. Needs to be practiced to break and re-associate that context.


7. Invocation

Method: Experience some state strongly - adrenaline-rush, love, joy, anger, sadness, meditation, whatever you like. Memorize it. Memorize exactly what it feels like, in as much detail as you can; pay attention.

Invocation, crudely put, is the act of remembering a state strongly enough to put yourself back in it. It is difficult to do without having the primary experience first (but this can be done). Remembering in this sense is the opposite process as the previous encoding - remember what some aspect was like, and be like that. Change your breath, dump some adrenalin into your system, change your heart rate, etc.

At first, this is a somewhat slow and detailed process, but with practice it turns into something you can do in an instant of decision.

Effect: Very useful, for very many things. Basically, this is an extension of the walking-meditation concept: invoke any mind state at will. A necessary thing to learn for, e.g., invoking a grounded state in an emergency situation, etc.

Invoking joy is, in my experience, particularly useful once you learn it. It allows for a very different perspective on many things, including ones that would in other states be hurtful. Very hard to describe to someone who's not done it. 

Invoking other things can be quite utilitarian - e.g. adrenaline to get awake in the morning (the hard part is remembering to invoke it when you're sleep-hazy).

Remember to continue having primary experiences, of course - but combining the two aspects (encoding and retrieval) can ensure that the experience is more strongly felt, since this is a potentially recursive technique. (To recurse, just keep switching between encoding and remembering; there's a slight blip in intensity with each iteration, during which time you can switch to the other, making it a positive feedback loop.)

Warning: Do not recurse adrenaline, anger, or related things. Dangerous.


8. Linking / triggering (mantra, sanctum, etc)

Method: Essentially, this is a matter of having one (simple) think invoke another (more difficult) one. This is the other major driving force behind mantras, and the primary one behind all symbols, stones, incense use, etc.

Experience the trigger and the triggered thing together, repeatedly. In certain cases, this is automatic - like with mantra-recitation meditation. In others, you'll need to invoke both to create that bond - like tying the idea of being physically attacked to some particular useful mind state. This, of course, is not necessarily something that you would want to do repeatedly in real life (although that is a more effective way to consolidate the link).

Effect: Triggers can be used to have any inner out outer state cause any inner response you like, and as such are very customizable. It can be wise to ensure that all triggers that invoke dangerous states - e.g. massive adrenaline + anger dump for protection, or dissociative states for the same, etc - also have associated triggers to get you out of those states when they don't apply or when the need is over.

These can also be tied to particular keywords (spoken by yourself or others), people, actions, things, etc.

This is a useful aid to pure "intent" invocation - e.g. by associating an invocation to some object (a shielding / grounding stone is common).

Warning: While definitely a powerful and useful technique, this is another case of being very careful what you wish for. Triggers can of course be undone, but depending on how long it's been and how strongly you put them in in the first place, this can be a difficult and/or painful process. So, make sure you know what you're doing and what you want, and don't strongly encode stuff that you don't want to be with you permanently.

More advanced stuff: You can make triggers "tamper-resistant" or otherwise stronger by having multiple ones that reinforce each other. Or, e.g., have triggers that are set to go off on another one being taken down. This can obviously be recursive. More elaborate setups will probably come to mind if you think about it.

However, as a serious not-kidding-here warning - don't do it, or at the very least put in some reliable backdoors. It makes removal once you realize you were an idiot and there's a better way x years down the line way harder (duh).

Removal: Hit, or approach hitting, the trigger while ensuring that your response is whatever you want it to be changed to. Pause as needed. Identical to encoding really - just you have to simultaneously deal with (and accept/negate/overwrite the effects of) the old stuff also. If you take your time, making sure you don't do it stronger than you can handle (eg old trigger invoked X; you overwrite it with Y), this isn't too hard.

This is basically the standard method of gradually acclimatizing people to treat phobias. Being scared (and relaxing from it) is unavoidably part of the process. You have to accept what the old stuff was before you can really change it (using 'free flow' and self-affection on your own emotional state can come in useful here, depending on what you're dealing with). Be patient, here; if you spent a very long time reinforcing this setup in the first place, it can take a while to undo that.


9. Awakening / turning "on"

Method: Combine all the previous techniques into one - particularly, all three forms of meditation, grounding, free flow, and very strong invocation. Turn it into one simultaneous, seamless whole.

Turn it on.

Enjoy.

Effect: You'll know.


10. Self-affection

Method: Invoke (visualize, etc) the feeling of comforting a loved one in need - the physical sensation of an enveloping hug, any accompanying mannerisms (hair-stroking and the like), and that sort of protective / guarding feel. (This can be somewhat aggressive-protective, of course - the sort of response you get when someone or something external threatens something under your protection.)

Next, put yourself in the opposite position - of being relaxed and protected and able to let go etc.

Rapid-cycle these, switching back and forth. At first, it's easiest to picture yourself in each case as interacting with someone else; the next step would be to turn that someone else into a sort of "clone" (aspect-of-self); and the last is to make it not second-person at all but entirely recursive.

Effect: For one, it's a good way to get healing when it's not immediately available from others.

However, this is also a very grounding / relaxing technique, and can be a rather joyful experience. Good for getting to know yourself as you are when stripped - rather than just the shields-on, self-protective, possibly rigid version. Everyone needs acceptance and affection, after all - this lets you provide it to yourself. Good for actually resolving negative emotions. Good way to be calmly but firmly defensive of your boundaries.

You'll know the rest when you try it.

Warning: I've only recently been doing this. I'm pretty sure it is not, as such, harmful in any way. However, it can be very eerie, and you need to pay attention to making sure that you don't simultaneously sever all contact with the outside world simply because you're fulfilling the main need that ties you to it.


Postscript

While I would not call these 'toys', it's good to take a playful but respectful attitude to all of this. Have fun, explore, poke around in the dusty places. Use your powers for good. Many of these techniques can be used to put you in not just a calm zen state of mind, but also rather happy and joyful (and sensual and etc) ones.

It's your mind; ultimately, all of these techniques are merely ways to channel / focus your willpower. There are many different ways of acheiving the same effects - a more advanced version of invocation; some more chaotic stuff; smart drug use; gestalt participation; etc. I don't think I can teach them, but I'm pretty sure that if you've learned these (or otherwise had a strong practice for a while), you'll figure them out for yourself.

The things that I have labeled as dangerous are, basically, issues of being really, really sure that you know what you want - 'cause that's what you're going to get. Remember, the way of *dealing* with something you decide on is not the same as wanting *to* resolve an issue. Concentrating too much on the former can get you stuck into one method - perhaps one that's not, longterm, in your best interest.

For those of you with other experience, you'll probably notice some ... features of my approach that differ from those you are familiar with. My suggestion: try it my way, and see how it works - but more importantly, find *your* version of these. I've tried to make the descriptions as generic as possible, with the expectation that it will vary a lot depending on your symbolset, religious practices / beliefs, existing internal 'setup', etc.

My intent is mainly to just put into words what I do. You'll probably find that you're already doing some or all of them, in one form or another; hopefully, this will give you some ideas of how to extend your existing practice, or variants to try. If you've not done one before, but have others, see if you can find an analogue of that one, that works in your existing system.

When you see other systems - eg ritual magic(k), transcendental meditation, tantra, Christian prayer, etc - see how they're related. IME, what I've listed here covers everything, broadly. More specific paths will, obviously, teach specialized variants and go into more detail. Breath meditation alone is the subject of many books' worth of good reading. The important part is to start practicing, figure it out as you go, and learn more on the way.

Lastly: You are the only person who can answer the important questions. If you want to know who you are, or what some symbol means, or what you really want (vs how you think that can be realized), etc... just ask, and have the patience to listen to the answers.

Comments

[info]raccaldin36 wrote:
Feb. 21st, 2006 10:06 am (UTC)
Forwarding to a professor of mine interested in such things.
[info]saizai wrote:
Feb. 21st, 2006 10:17 am (UTC)
Let me know their response (or have 'em email me directly).
(Anonymous) wrote:
Feb. 21st, 2006 04:13 pm (UTC)
Just beginning to learn
I am just delving into the possibility that I MAY be an empath. The little reading that I have done makes a lot of sense to the ways I have been feeling for so long. I feel it has caused me much anxiety and fear. What I am wondering, because I have read nothing about this, is - can being an empath creat actual physical pain/discomfort? Also, do you believe in precongnitive empathy? AND...is it possible to feel empathic energy from those who have passed? I cannot seem to find many to talk to about this (having been searching blogs for a few days). Perhaps you can help direct me??

My email is cheers44@hotmail.com

I have written alittle about my experince on my webpage (see post Young Death...)

http://spaces.msn.com/cheersrayne/

Anyway, thanks for listening!!

Heather
[info]saizai wrote:
Feb. 21st, 2006 04:19 pm (UTC)
Re: Just beginning to learn
I would suggest you create a LJ account, join the [info]empaths community, and post this there - it doesn't really relate to my post as such, but what you mention are very common newbie questions there.

In short form, my answers are yes, no, and depends who you ask (if me, no). Opinion varies though, and my opinion doesn't really change anything for you. So like I said - ask it there, and you'll get plenty of response.
[info]glitterychaos wrote:
Feb. 21st, 2006 04:33 pm (UTC)
Re: Just beginning to learn
If you want to talk to another empath, and the community freaks you out, you can email me. I`ve got too much time on my hands :) I have even less answers than Sai does, but sometimes just sharing helps. email is glitterychaos(at)hotmail.com

Yes, it can cause actual pain.
No, don`t believe in precognative empathy, that`s beyond the definition of what I consider empathy and goes into something else.
The last question, big iff.. I`d say NO, for the same reasons as above. Both of these are sensing energy patterns that I don`t consider empathy at all, but another form of sensing.
[info]glitterychaos wrote:
Feb. 21st, 2006 04:30 pm (UTC)
I am not new to techniques such as these, but I`ve never found an explaination that worked to show me how to do that type of thing. I`m going to try with yours. Gimme a week or two and I`ll be able to tell you whether the explaination you wrote worked for me :)

And to note, I am an empath, you likely remember that. Nothing but someone else`s heavy shielding has kept *me* sane around emotional crowds. But I shall see, trying something new, or something old in a new way, is always interesting. Even if only for that, thank you!
[info]saizai wrote:
Feb. 21st, 2006 04:33 pm (UTC)
Oh, I remember you well enough.

Let me know how they work (and which ones you try), and if you have suggestions for how to tune what I've written to be more accessible / understandable.
[info]glitterychaos wrote:
Feb. 21st, 2006 04:34 pm (UTC)
I figured. I`ll definitely let you know, I`ve found having a clear written form of what one does is very useful, for yourself and for others.
[info]saizai wrote:
Feb. 21st, 2006 04:35 pm (UTC)
*wry laugh* I don't know that I'd call this "clear". :-P

But yeah, let me know. May it help.
[info]glitterychaos wrote:
Feb. 21st, 2006 04:37 pm (UTC)
Clear! *me grins* It`ll get there. I only took almost half a year to get my definitions of energy types to be semi-clear, and I never was brave enough to post to a public forum to get opinions. :)
[info]saizai wrote:
Feb. 21st, 2006 04:45 pm (UTC)
Perhaps it's time to do so? ;-)
[info]saizai wrote:
Apr. 12th, 2006 06:43 am (UTC)
Time given. How's it worked?
(Anonymous) wrote:
Nov. 20th, 2006 07:01 am (UTC)
question on energy circuit
Hi, very interesting post. I was wondering, what are all the effects of the energy circuit? does it actually give you more energy? also, does it actually increase arousal (i don't need that, which is why i'm asking)? thanks.
[info]saizai wrote:
Nov. 20th, 2006 07:08 am (UTC)
Re: question on energy circuit
The effects are hard to describe in detail because they're fairly subtle; I suggest you try it and find out.

It doesn't give you "more" energy, it just ... changes your state. Makes you more 'on', as it were.

As for arousal, that depends on what kind of arousal you mean and whether you're doing it with a partner. However, IMO it's entirely a question of intent; you will get what you aim for.
[info]adsartha wrote:
Apr. 12th, 2007 03:53 am (UTC)
Perhaps half of these are things I've tried at various points. Others I've either tried a few times and dropped (one, the energy balls variant, is due to bad associations, which is something I should really just fix since the person it's associated with is no longer present in my life), and still others are either variants on things I've done or natural extensions that I simply haven't gotten to yet. Luckily, my job allows me to practice various forms of meditation. Most of all, it's nice to have some names to put to the techniques so that I can better explain them to others.

At any rate, this is meant both as an expression of interest in these topics and a statement that I find you interesting. I'm wondering where you are now with these things, and if you have anything new to add to them.

Yes, I'm fairly empathic, but having existed in a heavy-drama college crowd for four years where everything was the end of the world, the non-academic world seems much calmer and easier to deal with. *wry smile*

Disclaimer: I have read most of your entries on yourself and how you interact with the world, so I'm trying to meet the level of sincerity and honesty that you try to use with others. I suppose that's both an empath's sort of thing and a way to bypass the bullshit of small talk that's meant to get to know a person. *wry* I tend to interact rapidly and intensely with people as a preference; it's much harder to find outside of my college friends group, sadly.

I'll go ahead and friend you, since most of my journal is locked and I imagine you'd like to know something about this random person dropping by. I would suggest the memories first - there's not too many and I tend to update lately with the intent of keeping friends who aren't here posted on my life, which in turn tends to be relatively uninteresting to someone who doesn't know me IRL.
[info]saizai wrote:
Apr. 12th, 2007 04:10 am (UTC)
With my approach to 'meditation', *anything* allows it. I'm not really much for the "sit and be quiet with incense" style; it's nice yes but the idea is to change towards being *always* in a meditative mindstate. People often get dependent on sensory deprivation (or sensory idyll in any case) and then can't do it when it's actually needed.

My names for these things are definitely *my* names; I haven't run across anyone who calls 'em the same thing unless they somehow got it from me. So no claim of 'standard' there.

I should probably update this entry at some point, but there's really not very much to add to it. Just minor tweaks. I could probably expand it into a book - give various scripts to try, etc - but I kinda *like* having it be put tersely and flexibly, since people also often get caught up on the specifics of some particular implementation that are, in truth, quite irrelevant except to the person who made them and their belief system. So since I see it all as just variants of a very small set of major techniques, I don't really discover new ones very often. :-P (And honestly several of the ones in here could be just bundled in to others as variants.)

IME academia isn't particularly better or worse than any other potentially stressful situation; depends more on the people involved, etc.

Yay on being sincere and skipping smalltalk. How did you come across me? My guess is that you lurk [info]empaths? I don't mind random people stopping by; what's public is public. I'm always glad when someone finds something I wrote to be useful or interesting.

Feel free to ping me on IM sometime if you want to talk.
[info]saizai wrote:
Apr. 12th, 2007 04:18 am (UTC)
P.S. Which ones have you used, which discarded / why, and anything you do that isn't in this set?

See the part on removing triggers for how to go about removing bad association w/ energy balls; it's the only describable method I know of that works reliably.
[info]aliothsan wrote:
Oct. 26th, 2007 10:30 pm (UTC)
Am forwarding this to a person at MIT Medical who specializes in relaxation techniques (among other things).
[info]saizai wrote:
Oct. 26th, 2007 10:32 pm (UTC)
Would be interested to hear their response/comment.
[info]akienm wrote:
Aug. 28th, 2008 10:42 pm (UTC)
I loved stumbling across this. I have to say, I learned almost nothing from reading it, because over the years I've developed all the same things myself. But to know I'm not the only one, that's very cool. Thanx. I am gonna add you to watch, I have a feeling we think rather alike.
[info]saizai wrote:
Aug. 29th, 2008 12:19 am (UTC)
Glad to be of service.

FYI, part of this (all-point techniques) was written up as a much less dense article for the last issue of 2600 (Summer '08). It may be interesting to read. If you can't get a copy, email me and I can get you a PDF.

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